Aktion	Zweigstelle	Standorte	Status	Frist	Vorbestellungen
Vorbestellen	Zweigstelle: 07., Urban-Loritz-Pl. 2a	Standorte: GS.OS Lore / College 3b - Englisch / Regal 315	Status: Entliehen	Frist: 06.08.2026	Vorbestellungen: 0

What even is “sexy,” and how the hell do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations. In How Do I Sexy?, Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger.

 

You’re invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You’ll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships. Principled and compassionate, Mx. Lore will help you figure out who you want to be, who you want to be with and how to make it happen—both in the streets and between the sheets.

 

Front Cover -- Title Page -- Half Title -- Copyright -- Dedication -- Contents -- Foreword -- Acknowledgements -- Chapter 1: The Ventura Effect -- Chapter 2: What the Heck Even Is "Sexy"? -- Chapter 3: Coping with Fear, Shame, Guilt and Insecurity -- Chapter 4: Making Your Personal Mantras -- Chapter 5: Saying No to Traditional Gender Roles and Other Toxic Ideals -- Chapter 6: Get Your Sexy On -- Chapter 7: Dating, Flirting and Finding Community -- Chapter 8: Trans Queer-Affirming Sex: What It Is and How to Have It -- Conclusion: Eight Important Takeaways -- Glossary -- Resources -- Index -- About the Author.